I've noticed over the past year that my erections are less strong and frequent, although desire and ejaculation are the same as before.   



Yes, I can understand this would be a real concern.
 Erectile responsiveness is a multi-faceted symptom of some deeper imbalance in the body.
 With increased stress, sometimes the desire for pleasure via ejaculation can increase and more frequent engagements with self pleasuring 
can decrease potency of erection as well as amount of semen released
. To address all levels of flows in the body, we could go over a series of questions to discern if it is mainly the water element  which 
includes uro-genital and elimination functions of the body.




I had thought that perhaps some of the medications for blood pressure and cholesterol management may be affecting this.  

This is a common complaint I receive from men on both of these medications.
 Sometimes reducing the dosage helps, drinking more water to flush out the effects is also a good practice if you continue to take them.
 There are natural ways to reduce blood pressure with conscious connected breathing patterns I can teach you in our first session together.
 Having been a rebirther and reichian breath worker for over 20 years,
I discovered I could lower my blood pressure by simply deepening and
 slowing my breath and consciously relaxing just before and while having my blood pressure checked.
 You can learn to do this too as your body relaxes with exhale. There is device designed by a former client of mine that supports this premise.

More and more research has been done in this area and I recommend a valuable resource in my preparation email, a book by a doctor,
 The Viagra Alternative: The Complete Guide to Overcoming Erectile Dysfunction Naturally by Marc Bonnard, M.D.  Healing Arts Press, Rochester, VT
,  He lists many herbs and alternative treatments likely cheaper than the medications you are already taking. Natural spices cayenne, cinnamon, greens, and natural foods that can automatically begin to reduce cholesterol levels. Bonnard also has a Dragon's Milk shake recipe that some of my clients find delicious and effective daily source of vitality.



I've also had an elevated PSA score.  
After reading all the uncertainties of traditional medicine with respect to prostate cancer, I have wanted to explore alternatives to surgery, radiation, etc.  


Yes, there are more and more alternatives to bringing your prostate into a more flowing and functioning condition which are worth the exploring.
In my sessions.  I combine the EFT and Tong Ren Energetic Meridian Tapping after we go over the questions together.
 EFT would include opening and clearing thoughts and feelings around these concerns. Tong Ren involves tapping with a metallic hammer along the energetic & organ
 meridian flows associated with the prostate gland to open up chi flow for libido to come more back into balance.



I have urinary symptoms or other symptoms relating to prostrate distress.

Although I cannot legally make medical claims, I can assure you many men I have worked with over the past 10 years have been able to have urinary symptoms subside and the
 prostate gland comes back into balance.
 In my longer 2-3 sessions, as the pelvic floor relaxes including the bladder, a person may urinate 1-4 X. This appears to be part of the balancing, clearing and cleansing process of urogenital flows.
 
So, I'm looking for someone who can help me learn alternatives and who performs tantric massage helping me return this area of my life to confidence.
 
Yes, initially opening up the root center, perineum area energetically is done with circular motions, warm rocks and coconut oil. 
I offer a healing, not a performance. My energy field and meridian pressure points are charged with chi we have generated during the session together. Focusing the chi on specific points fires or heats up with light pressure, burning through blockages as you relax and soften your body with your breath to open up the root center, including perineum, sacral floor points near prostate gland with a gentle and honoring yin approach.
 Your responsiveness depends upon your age, how easily you relax into the energy flows, caffiene intake, alcohol, water, etc. 


I usually recommend considering a series of 3 sessions of 90 min to 2 hr. length.

Please give me a call so we can talk further. Happy to explain anything else you may need to know to schedule your first session with me.
 I also send out a preparation email that is thorough with resources and especially the preparation of engaging the pelvic floor muscles which is a great way to massage your own prostate internally!

Sincerely & Warmly,
Grace Rosen, M.C., M.Ed.

The taoist tantric practices I coach and educate about begin with awareness of how the essence of our chi manifests as yang and yin expressions in our physical body as well as how we express emotions and make love. Simple breath and relaxation exercises can bring a person’s awareness into their body and the mind begins to relax. Basic chi gong and tai chi stances and movements also assist people in experiencing tangible tools to  begin to open up their energy flows to build their chi levels, how to cultivate their senses inward for optimal balance, function and flow. Recharging the physical body’s energetic battery and being more at choice concerning sexual emission can be empowering and life changing experience for many people wanting to come more into energetic balance.

Grace Rosen, M.C, M.Ed. has been a taoist tantric sensual coach and spiritual educator for 10 years in SouthWest and currently in New England area. Phone consults and private intensives available internationally. More: www.PurEnergy.net -www.RaisingtheDragon.com 
*See my article on this site: What Chi or Energy has to do with Libido or Sex currently on front page or under Neo-Tantra heading.